Etiquette and Customs

India is a country where one shall come across many customs. Different customs are followed in different parts of the country. However, customs in the metros and the countryside may substantially differ. Metros in India are liberal and cosmopolitan as compared to the countryside. In the countryside, there are many customs which may be regarded as rigid and unusual. It is surprising to note that some of these customs may date back to even thousand years. To put things simply, attitude to life in India differs as compared to the west.

It is imperative to mention here that many western influences could be easily noticed in the metros and other big cities of India. But the best thing about Indians is that they are very hospitable people and welcome the customs and lifestyles of others. There are certain norms associated with places of worship or local customs which should be followed to avoid hurting local sentiments.

·Shoes or sandals should always be removed before entering a place of worship like temple, gurudwara or mosque. In Gurudwaras, head should also be covered with a cloth. Moreover, it is advisable to dress conservatively while visiting a place of worship.

·Any holy object, whether situated within a place of worship or outside, should never be touched with the feet or left hand. Moreover, nothing should be taken, given or shown with the left hand.

·If required to eat with fingers at any place, the left hand should not be used.

· Public show of affection should be avoided particularly in smaller cities and villages. Smaller places generally have rigid customs and traditions.

· Similarly, clothes that bare the arms and legs should be avoided in small cities and villages. In metros, however, these things are not a bother.

· While visiting holy places, rules written on notice boards should be followed. Some of these rules may include 'leather objects not allowed', 'cameras not allowed', 'menstruating women not allowed' etc.

· Tips giving is not mandatory but customary only. At restaurants, the usual rule of 10 per cent applies.

· Bargaining for prices is a common affair in India. Bargaining especially takes place at local bazaars, and while travelling by rickshaws and autos. However, departmental stores and larger shops usually charge fixed prices.

· IST stands for Indian Standard Time but things hardly move according to time in India!